tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6987252314457926314.post7884959965601801850..comments2023-04-27T04:39:45.022-07:00Comments on Foster Adopt: When to make contact?DMNhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00122220947403381929noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6987252314457926314.post-51455792098234777202011-07-13T00:41:00.202-07:002011-07-13T00:41:00.202-07:00I'd also say to contact them- worst they can s...I'd also say to contact them- worst they can say is no! (And who knows if what Sam told you about them not wanting contact is true). While I respect their decision if they don't want contact it's also part of your daughter's story. It' either going to happen now or twenty years from now. But eventually the truth always comes out. Go for it!Tamara ViAnnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06791849130893835436noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6987252314457926314.post-66801785727373228272011-07-12T14:39:47.645-07:002011-07-12T14:39:47.645-07:00Hi! We are fostering to adopt and waiting for our...Hi! We are fostering to adopt and waiting for our first placement. So while I don't have any "real" experience in that department I do have other experience. I have a sister, who is 4ish years younger than I am who I just found out about definitely existed about 2 years ago. It is kind of a weird and touchy subject within my family. Her & I have talked since it came out, but we have never met. Anyways, long story short and point being... at some point you can't please everyone. In my opinion you should definitely reach out to them. If they are upset, who cares? At least you tried and you will be able to tell Emma that. Sometimes the things that are best for our kids are not what's easy or best for us. I think reaching out is best for all of the kids. Hopefully, a beautiful relationship will blossom from your efforts!!! Good luck!!! PS. Love your blog!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17199380657884759780noreply@blogger.com