tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6987252314457926314.post6032358719329706575..comments2023-04-27T04:39:45.022-07:00Comments on Foster Adopt: Uhhhh….DMNhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00122220947403381929noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6987252314457926314.post-78588998166688638262011-04-20T19:29:33.843-07:002011-04-20T19:29:33.843-07:00I have been following your blog for a while now bu...I have been following your blog for a while now but I don't think I've ever commented.<br /><br />If I were in your shoes I would definitely consider moving or at the very least consider switching apartments. I looked into PO Boxes a little bit last year, depending on the size, I don't remember it being too expensive. At the same time, the mailbox at your place is free and you don't have to travel to the post office all the time!<br /><br />I really hope you can sort things out with Sam, have you talked with her about boundries yet? Like the others, I hope you get to expirience a much healthier relationship with the birthmother the next time around!Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18072725764412342964noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6987252314457926314.post-63682297532703524742011-04-20T12:39:43.541-07:002011-04-20T12:39:43.541-07:00That is so hard! I know you're not going to s...That is so hard! I know you're not going to sever all contact with her but perhaps telling her that your home is yours and not hers to share with others as she sees fit? I like the idea of switching apartments. You can stay in the same complex but then she doesn't have your address. Then set up a P.O. box for letters. It's hard because you don't want to shut her out but trying to find the balance between forgiveness and protecting your daughter is something I don't envy you for having to do. Best of luck. Ugh, that must have felt so violating!Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01263222190554094815noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6987252314457926314.post-12394008019477575022011-04-19T23:24:20.914-07:002011-04-19T23:24:20.914-07:00Maybe change apartments? Or get a PO Box for Sam t...Maybe change apartments? Or get a PO Box for Sam to write to and tell her you moved? That sure gets tricky! Best of luck :)Samanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10779599021860318339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6987252314457926314.post-13028990196127485062011-04-19T22:45:15.738-07:002011-04-19T22:45:15.738-07:00It sure gets sticky when friends of birth parents ...It sure gets sticky when friends of birth parents interject themselves. It can be hard for them to sense boundaries.<br /><br />I hope with your next adoption, things will be different and you will be able to have a healthy open adoption relationship with the birth parents!Que and Brittany's Adoption Journeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02584631461178087768noreply@blogger.com